Frequently Asked Questions

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Feel free to contact me directly with your questions.

How do I get Started?

Send a message or call directly at (469) 662-0607. After learning more about your needs and what brings you to counseling, I will help you determine what services are a best fit, and then work with you to schedule your first session. If it is determined that other options are needed, I will assist with appropriate referrals.

Do you offer online counseling or teletherapy options?

Yes! In-person or virtual sessions through a secure platform are available. 

What should I expect from counseling?

First off you should know that you are in control of your counseling, and it will be centered around you. I can help you determine what your priorities are and how to work towards your goals. Over the course of your therapy, you can expect to learn about your specific responses to stress and ways to calm your nervous system. You’ll discover how your experiences have impacted you and be helped to find relief from negative thoughts, physical reactions of stress and limiting behaviors. While therapy does require honesty and vulnerability, you get to choose what you share, how much you share and when. This process is a collaboration, and your system will heal as it feels safe and ready. I am interested in knowing how things are going for you along the way, so that adjustments can be made as needed. You bring yourself and your inner wisdom, and I will contributes expertise to help you succeed. I primarily use EMDR therapy with additional approaches incorporated as needed.

 

What types of counseling services do you offer?

Individual counseling for adults of all ages. I can help you to address a range of life challenges, but my training is focused on trauma informed care with a primary approach of intensive EMDR therapy as well as incorporation of Internal Family Systems and mindfulness.

Getting creative to work through each individuals needs ensures you get the care and support you need.

How do I know if counseling is right for me?

If you find that you have gotten as far as you can with what you know and are capable of, then it’s a great idea to recruit help. There are several paths through which you can work through obstacles and counseling is one.

If you would like a committed, knowledgeable and caring partner to help you find your way forward, I would love to help!

How long are counseling sessions typically?

I offer therapy in an intensive format of sessions either 3 or 6 hours long. If you attend a 6-hour session (full day) it includes a lunch break of 30 to 60 minutes. 

Can you tell me more about intensive EMDR therapy and what to expect.

To assess if intensive EMDR therapy is right for you, I recommend we do a free consultation call. We will discuss what you hope to address and accomplish and will also be interested in understanding how things are in the present, and make sure you have the right degree of stability and support to aid your progress. 

I provides intensive EMDR therapy through sessions of 3 to 6 hours in a day to help you progress further towards your goals in each session. These sessions are primarily scheduled Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between the hours of 8am and 3pm. If you are scheduling a multi-day therapy intensive, Mondays and Fridays may be available. 

The duration of therapy and frequency of sessions varies based on several factors including the history of the issue, the speed at which the client would like to see progress, and availability. While one person might reach their goal in a single 3-to-6-hour session, others will benefit from multiple sessions. The structure of the intensive is collaboratively decided between counselor and client depending on goals and circumstances. Clients have found productive pacing by meeting multiple times in a week, weekly, every other week and even monthly.  

During the session you can take breaks, have a snack and stand up and move as needed. I am always happy to throw in some gentle yoga, breathing exercises or guided mindfulness to help with the pacing. Show up comfortable, bring any comforting items (blanket, stuffy, important object, picture, etc), and make sure you have your favorite drink. 

After session you will know that you did a big day’s work and will be encouraged to be kind to yourself. Self-care practices like naps, taking a nice walk outside, playing with your dog, massage, yoga or other comforting activities are a great compliment to you therapy days. 

Intensive EMDR therapy can go on even while you keep working with your primary therapist for more regular support. I am familiar with working as an adjunct therapist to help with a specific focus and welcome the chance to collaborate with anyone else on your treatment team.

What is EMDR?

EMDR is a research supported approach that addresses the way memories of trauma and adverse experiences impact our current functioning. When you experience a traumatic event the memory is not processed the way other memories are and it becomes stuck, continuing to impact your emotions, perspective, physical reactions and behaviors. This may manifest as PTSD symptoms, anxiety, fears, shame, poor self-esteem, avoidance, unhealthy relationship dynamics, poor sleep and other disruptive patterns. EMDR helps your brain to reprocess the disturbing material until it is transformed and then stored in a more adaptive way. As a result you find yourself better able to live in the present with resilience and hope. For more information describing EMDR therapy go to Emdria.org.

Is EMDR for me?

EMDR has been found to be beneficial for a number of presenting issues. These are some of the experiences that can be addressed through EMDR. 

  • PTSD symptoms
  • Spiritual Abuse
  • Natural Disasters
  • Victims of Violence
  • Grief and Loss
  • Relational Trauma
  • Childhood abuse or neglect
  • Fears and Phobias
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Racial Trauma
  • Chronic Pain
  • Domestic Violence

Reach out to explore if you might benefit from EMDR.

What is trauma?

I understand trauma to be any experience that has overwhelmed someone physically, emotionally or psychologically. What is traumatic to one person may not be to someone else. While most people are aware of “big T” traumas like war, sexual assault and natural disasters, trauma can occur in more subtle and private ways that aren’t easily identified including mistreatment or neglect. Traumatic experiences and their impact are unique across individuals, communities and cultures with marginalized groups facing historical and ongoing trauma of oppression and discrimination. Trauma can also occur in chronic or repeated incidents which have a cumulative effect on someone’s functioning. If you have been affected by an adverse or traumatic experience you deserve to create healing. 

What should I expect from Therapeutic Yoga?

Therapeutic yoga implies that the yoga sessions are offered with great consideration for helping the student to feel safe, respected and empowered to honor their needs. The actual session could fit a variety of styles including but not limited to gentle yoga or a more flowing vinyasa. The difference is in the teachers’ careful attention to  how they interact with the student, what words they choose and monitoring to help students feel safe throughout. These sessions help students establish an attuned and  respectful relationship between mind and body. There is also great focus on understanding the nervous system so that students can gain the tools to reduce distress and create calm. 

Do you take insurance?

I am an out of network provider and her services are private pay. Billing statements and superbills can be provided for you to submit to your insurance provider to request reimbursement. Please be aware that insurance companies often require a mental health diagnosis and potentially other information about your treatment in order to process your claim. I cannot guarantee if insurance companies will reimburse for the services you receive. 

Payment is due at time of service. Acceptable forms of payment are exact cash, check, credit and debit. For more information on rates please see the About page.

How do I cancel or reschedule?

Please call, text, email or use the secure messaging through Simple Practice to notify me of your need to cancel of change your appointment. 72 hours prior notice is required to cancel or reschedule a session set for a single day. If you are scheduled for a multi-day intensive, one week (7 days) prior notice is required to cancel or reschedule.

Your right to a Good Faith Estimate

As a private pay client,  if you do not plan to submit to insurance for reimbursement, you have the right to request a Good Faith Estimate with an estimated total cost for services. To learn more about what a Good Faith Estimate is and is not, as well as your rights, here.

Good Faith Estimate (link to PDF)

RESOURCES

Do you have an emergency? Call 911

Call 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org

National Domestic Violence hotline 800.799.SAFE (7233)

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JEssica W Callahan your partner for mindful growth

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